Monday, September 29, 2014

The Art of Deadma



Maturity comes with age, most would say, but lately I came to terms where I learned so much more than what was told. Choosing your battle is essential when you realize the importance of your time and energy. Not all things are worth your time. Fortunately for me, the art of deadma is becoming easier to understand and apply. I can be very cold and awkward. It can take me a long time to warm up again if there is a slight chance of that possibility. But mostly, I’d rather be comfortably doing my own thing than minding each and everyone’s business.

I came across an article in one of the blogs I am following. It states 17 things you stop caring about the closer you get to 30. One of which is trying to impress other people all the time. Where I realized, I care less now of what other people thinks of me as long as I am at peace with myself and has that level of happiness, I’m good. The more you pay attention to so many people around, the more you get no peace of mind. Know what you want and focus all your energy into it. Listen around but still stick to what you think is right.


When you learn to choose your battle, you become at peace.

14 comments:

  1. hindi ko alam kung bakit nung nabasa ko yung 'choose your battle' bigla na lang pumasok sa isip ko yung anime na 'pokemon' hehehe :)

    but i agree sa lahat ng iyong naisulat, kung lahat na lang ay papatulan, waley mangyayari sa buhay, sayang lang ang time :)

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    1. thanks for your comment. yeah it took me some time to realize it but at least now natutunan ko na. hehehe

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  2. I totally agree. To quote a Katy Perry song: 'choose your battles babe, then you'll win the war'.

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    1. Oh really she has one? hahahaha. bihira kasi ako makinig sa kanya. LOL

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  3. Agreed. Hay, a lot of things really change as we age. He he.

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  4. Agreed. Hay, a lot of things really change as we age. He he.

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  5. tamagochi! hehe
    oo mahalaga na pinipili na natin ngayon yung mga pinapatulan natin. haha

    and yeah, natutunan ko na rin ang art of deadma na yan as i get old. haha

    in fairness magkatema ang latest posts natin. haha
    ..hay the challenges of ageing. lol

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    1. really? meant to be? joke. its easier said than done. pero pag natutunan mo ang art of deadma you'll benefit from it well. hehehe

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    2. kilig much ang meant to be. haha

      yeah iba rin nga ang blessing ng pagkatuto sa art of deadma. haha

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    3. Challenges of aging ba kamo? Maybe I should write about that. :))

      To Ron - The first time I learned not to care is when I got rejected by a number of Blogger/Twitter friends because of my, uh, high maintenance lifestyle. Maybe I should write about it, too. :))

      P.S. I really admire your artwork. I started painting recently but my first work (and only, so far) looks funny. Haha!

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    4. @Ryan See: yeah i think you should write about it. exciting aabangan ko yan. hehehe. as for your art work, i suggest gawa ka lang nga gawa. kahit nakakatawa sa paningin mo art pa rin yan. salamat nagustuhan mo yung art ko. sana mapost mo rin ung art works mo soon. :-)

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