One must be truthful of their intentions in fighting a battle. You do not front your power, your affection or your care to someone if all you do are ways to bring the person down. Admit and be honest that you fight due to anger. From where your anger is coming from, I do not exactly know. But sometimes, people build anger in their hearts through time just because they do not feel the person. And when it erupts with a pseudo valid reason to be angry, it can be blown out of proportion.