Sunday, April 17, 2011

Blab: Superficial


At some point, there will be a boring phase in a long term relationship. A couple who’d say their relationship is smooth sailing and all happy would be superficial. What could be greater: a love not felt so bold but said so frequent; or a love unspoken but felt so much? When a perfect couple admits they have issues, I commend. They are normal. It’s an ongoing process to keep the fire burning. When one gets bored of the usual routine, someone says they need spice; for the worse, they need space. Spice is not really necessary; but rather, a good realization and appreciation. Space could be beyond its magnitude and needs to be prevented. I would never expect or try hard to mould the perfect relationship everyone adores; I’d rather have it with all its flaws so we’d learn to compromise and grow from it.

6 comments:

  1. nakarelate naman ako sa post na to,haha nasabi at natumbok mo na, aagree nalang ako,ehe

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  2. This is what defines mature love. I hope that many couples share that same kind of love to each other. It's beyond words, and sometimes beyond comprehension, but is surely genuinely felt.

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  3. check kuya! kaya nga inaaway ko lagi si leo para may spice. chos!

    ganda ng attached image.

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  4. @mark: wow...well.. goodluck sayo!hehehe
    @ryan: tomooohhh!!!
    Nimmy:thanks for liking my artwork... hehehehe... wag mo naman masyado awayin hehehehehe

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  5. Actually, a bit of space is good, really; in fact, space can be the added spice in a relationship.

    What space am I referring to? It's the space that the partners need as individuals for them to grow. =)

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  6. @joelmcvie: haven't been convinced from what i have experienced. i always thought if a couple experiences rough times no one should push it through spice or space; but if ur rel works well, just a good realization will do. if it needs to be induced by spice or space, then so be it.but its not always necessary
    the space u were referring to, i couldn't agree more. space is necessary for individualism

    thnks for the comment. its an honor
    =)

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