Weekend Blab: Bitterness
“Who’s your most bitter ex?” a friend asked me. “I’m most bitter with, or he’s bitter to me?” just clarifying. “Bitter to you” he replied. We shared ex’s stories. Breaking up is always harsh, for a time. But after the letting go, moving on process you need to learn how to be happy for your ex. It feels so much better to have no hang ups with someone. Talk about forgiving; but never forgetting. It’s silly to say you can forget the heartache. It’s a lesson learned. You need not to think about it as much as you can or be consumed of the pain. You’ll be proud to say one day that it’s no big deal. Healing is a process, but it has to end at some point. It’s a funny conversation that we usually laugh about thinking how silly we were being bitter to someone. Bitterness only last until you finally were able to move on.