“If you’re given a choice: a child without a husband; or a husband without a child?” I asked a single 30 year old girl friend. “Husband without a child” I was surprised. She explained and I began to agree, so much applicable in gay relationships as she explained.
It’s unnecessary for a gay man to grow old alone.
Investing in a happy long term relationship is of the essence. May it be a lover, a child, or friends; it’s of importance to have someone holding your hand as you go through the sunset of your life. People come and go as we age, even a child learns how to play with other kids of their generation.
Cherish every moment and invest.